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Community mourns loss of Of Newspaper Lady' Kelda Stringer
Editor's Note Stringer, passed away early Thursday morning after a nearly year-long battle
with cancer. Kelda was 80 years old.
She was commonly known as "The Newspaper Lady," a title she earned for
more than 30 years of selling The Wayne County Outlook in downtown
Monticello. Each week Kelda set up shop in the shadow of the Doughboy and
sold hundreds of copies of the newspaper to people traveling along Main
Street.
Everyone who knew Kelda knew that she was a hard worker. Her dedication
to the job was easy to see as she stood outside hour after hour in grueling
heat and below freezing temperatures.
Kelda had been unable to sell newspapers for several months because of
her health. But throughout her illness she remained optimistic that she
would be able to return to work and "sell her papers."
Following is a tribute to Kelda, our "newspaper lady."
By HARLAN OGLE
In time books that chronicle the history of Monticello, Kentucky will be
written. Those books will record the spectacular accomplishments of
government, industry, and education. Statistics will be offered to impress
the reader. Photographs will appear depicting powerful political leaders.
Some people will read all those words and view all those photographs and
conclude that the value of a person is to be found in how powerful, how
wealthy, and how successful they were in achieving fame.
One person's name will probably not be included in those historical
accounts. Her name is Kelda Stringer. As much as she deserves to be
included, she will probably be overlooked.
You see, Kelda never occupied a political position of leadership. Kelda
never accumulated vast wealth. She did not receive a degree from some
prestigious college. She was not known in Frankfort or Washington, D.C.
But, Kelda Stringer was one of the most influential people who ever
lived in Monticello, Ky. She was one of our best-known citizens. Everybody
knew Kelda.
Many didn't know her name but they knew Kelda.
The surprising thing was that Kelda didn't seek any of that notoriety.
She didn't demand first place in anything! She embodied the concept and
practice of humility! She didn't put on any "airs." She was Kelda every time
you ever saw her.
Nobody seemed to know very much about Kelda's background. She just
seemed to always be a part of life in Monticello. When you were around Kelda
she was not the topic of conversation. You were!
It seemed that she would much rather talk about you than herself. We all
know why. Kelda loved people. All kinds of people. If you knew Kelda you had
to be impressed to see how everybody seemed to relate to her. Rich people,
poor people, black people, white people, old people, young people; she had
friends in all segments of Monticello society.
Those who only knew her as the "newspaper lady" missed out on a pure
blessing. Sure, she sold you the paper on the street every week. You could
see her gathering aluminum cans in waste containers. But those who took the
time to see past all that and talk to her found a wonderful example of God's
creative powers. Kelda was truly "one-in-a-million." Yes, she was friendly,
knowledgeable, and compassionate! Boy, was she compassionate.
None of us will ever know the hours Kelda spent in caring for so many
people who could not care for themselves. She seemed to be drawn to the
elderly, the poor, and the needy. It was difficult to try and meet any
personal need she had because she would use her abundance for the benefit of
others.
Little children who were sick and in need seemed to have a very special
place in her heart. She was moved to tears when she heard of a family who
had been "burned out" and her big heart was moved when some young child
developed some terminal disease. Indeed, she was a little lady with a big
heart.
If Kelda had a claim to fame that made her proud, it was probably
centered around her association with The Wayne County Outlook Some of the
people in Monticello can't remember a time when Kelda wasn't associated with
The Outlook. For some, Kelda and the Outlook were one and the same.
For several decades, Kelda could be found on Tuesday evenings and all
day Wednesdays by anybody who was looking for her. She was at her station in
the town square under the watchful oversight of the faithful Doughboy
statue. Surrounded by her papers and adorned by her cheery smile and
pleasant greeting, she sold her papers to adoring, faithful, and
appreciative customers.
Kelda was the only person in all of Wayne County who was authorized to
stop town traffic for the purpose of making a sell. No officer of the law
dared interfere with her important task of disseminating the news of the
community.
Even though the paper was available at various stores and newspaper
racks, most everyone preferred risking the downtown traffic just to make
their purchase from Kelda. The week wasn't complete without seeing Kelda. To
see just how faithful Kelda was to her task, you only had to go through the
square on Tuesday or Wednesday and find that she wasn't there. The talk at
school, in the store, and around the supper table was, "Did you notice Kelda
wasn't selling papers today? Wonder what's wrong?"
Kelda probably depended on what she made selling papers for her
livelihood but most of her customers remember that there were times when she
would say something like, "Just take this one. You don't have to pay for
it." She would try to give the paper to you. And, if it was paper day and
you didn't have change for a paper, you stopped any way. You could pay Kelda
"next week."
Kelda's association with The Outlook went beyond just selling papers.
The staff at The Outlook became part of her family! They related to her in
so many ways. She was their friend, their coworker, their confidant, their
example, their mentor, their advisor, their mother figure, and their
inspiration. Kelda taught The Outlook staff so many practical life lessons
that helped them deal with the tough spots that come to every person. They
were family.
Some months ago the whole town noticed that Kelda seemed to disappear
from her place in the square. "What happened to Kelda?" was asked by
hundreds of people. It was a sad day when it was made known that Kelda had
developed some serious health problems. It was even a sadder day when we
learned just how serious those problems were. Our hearts went out to her. We
prayed. We sent her cards. We visited her. She told us that everything was
going to work out all right. We watched every week to see if she was back on
the square selling her papers. We watched, but Kelda didn't return.
Kelda was hospitalized, went through surgery, and received the treatment
prescribed by the doctors. We were all encouraged and told ourselves she
would return when she was feeling better. It was not to be.
Kelda died on Thursday, February 16. That is to say her kind and
compassionate heart ceased to beat and the breath of life left her body.
But, we all know that she didn't really die. Not in the sense that she's not
with us anymore. Friends like Kelda will never really die. The presence of a
friend like Kelda will always be with us. In our memory we will continue to
see her smile and hear her simple words of kindness and encouragement.
For years to come we'll pass the Doughboy in the square and remember a
little lady who used to stand there in the cold of winter and the heat of
summer. In our memory we will see Kelda walking up and down the streets
eking out a living by the sweat of her brow and by practicing a work ethic
that is almost unknown in our society.
Kelda never flaunted her relationship to the Lord, but if you took the
time to talk to her, you knew she loved Him and depended upon Him for care
and comfort. She was not a trained theologian but she had an understanding
of things eternal. Kelda was a woman of faith and it is certain that her
faith and her friends sustained her in her last days.
There are those who weep because she has gone and our relationship with
her has ended. But. there are those who will not spend a lot of time in
weeping. They will be rejoicing because Kelda's life touched their life and
made a difference in who they are and the way they live their lives.
The next time you drive through the downtown square, you'll not see
Kelda standing with her supply of weekly papers. Don't think she's not
there. She is. Your memories and thoughts of her will keep her alive.
Kelda will be missed. Missed so much. Don't just think of her in the
context of loss. Think of the blessing you had in knowing her as your
friend. Let your memories of her be precious. Thank God that you were
fortunate enough to cross paths with the lady with the big heart. "We'll
miss you, Kelda, and we'll fondly and lovingly remember you. Thanks for the
memories."
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